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              London: A 64-year-old 
              Belgian man wants to have his marriage annulled after he 
              discovered that his Indonesian wife of 19 years had been born a 
              man and had later undergone a sex change.
 The man, named Jan, married Monica in 1993 despite legal 
              difficulties raised by the Belgian immigration authorities, the 
              Telegraph reported.
 
 But it was only recently that he discovered that his 48-year-old 
              wife had originally been a man.
 
 "I feel I've been assaulted," he told the Het Nieuwsblad 
              newspaper.
 
 "I brought her to Belgium. That was not easy. The Belgian courts 
              had serious doubts about the authenticity of her birth and her 
              identity papers, but eventually they accepted it anyway. I thought 
              she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits," 
              the Telegraph quoted him as saying.
 
 Jan said he and his wife had decided not to have children because 
              he had two by his previous marriage and she fooled him by 
              pretending to menstruate, using sanitary towels, "to conceal the 
              truth".
 
 "Even during sex, I never noticed anything," he said.
 
 For many years, the couple lived a normal family life and Monica 
              was like a "big sister" to his children until their marriage 
              started to come under strain when she got a new full-time job.
 
 "Monica began to change very much," Jan said.
 
 "My oldest son saw her sometimes at a nightclub. She began to wear 
              very flashy clothes, those ultra-short skirts or tiny tops, so her 
              abdomen was completely exposed," he said.
 
 Jan found "amorous messages" from other men on her computer. He 
              confronted her and a row ensued that led to police being called.
 
 "A friend told me that he had heard that Monica was actually a 
              sex-changed man. I could not believe it. My son heard similar 
              rumours," he said.
 
 Jan is undergoing psychiatric treatment following the discovery. 
              He has also started legal proceedings to have the marriage 
              annulled.
 
 
 
               
 
 
                
              
              
 
 
 
              
              
 
 
 
              
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